This is always the case... I don't get it nor do i necessarily agree with it. but here goes. SO... Why is it that when you like a guy and are pro-active about getting to know them do they disappear or, kindly obliged, but then disappear? OK before we get all worked up, this is not my issue. My issue or actually i should say situation is that when i am aloof and unavailable, do they come knocking down my door? Not saying that i am such a catch, but hear me out. Remember bad sweater guy? the guy that i went out with on like 2 dates, but was not into, then he sent me flowers, and brought me lunch to work, and would not leave.. yeah that guy... so he keeps calling and texting trying to as he would say "nail down" a date. Ugh! OK I'm not complaining per say, its just that i am not into him. He is really nice and funny and all, but i don't have the spark with him. I need the spark. But he keeps calling and texting like i said, and i am not by any means trying to lead him on, nor do i want to completely ignore him I just don't know how to tell him that i am not interested in him as mam-friend material. I do have to say something though. he keeps cracking jokes like i am playing hard to get. Sorry honey, I'm not a game player, i just don't know how to tell this perfectly normal guy, well wait that would be a lie. He is almost perfect, accept that im not into him, and he has this weird flat spot on the back of his head that kinda creeps me out, but other than that... great guy... Which brings me to this. I have started seeing/dating wing man. There has been no conversation on the matter of if we are girlfriend/man-friend yet, but REALLY i am in no rush to talk about THAT just yet. Moving on, he is great. he calls, he texts, and we go out. So this made me chuckle today. (i promise this is going somewhere) So he asked what i was up to tonight, and i said i was busy. Then he went on to ask Friday? busy. Saturday? busy. Sunday? busy at this point he laughed. OK well can you pencil me in next week...? I said i think that i am free on Monday or Tuesday. But then he comes back right away with what are you doing for lunch today? He brought me lunch... Now tell me please, why is it that when I am "unavailable" is it so urgent to see me? This "game" if that is what it is, is weird. And i have to say. I really am busy... well kinda :-) I think i just played a game on him and i didn't even know it... hmmm.... Well that's what he gets for tricking me into a date!
But honestly. i am not trying to play any games with him, i just don't want this new guy situation to take over my thoughts, and time... I do really like this guy, but i am also not going to not be realistic. I've liked other guys, and they turned around and went without blinking an eye. i will be proceeding with caution.
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