What a weekend... I finally had a day off! it was great! But hidden amongst the relaxation and a Murder Mystery there was " The Talk" oh god Well maybe it was not "the the talk" but it was pretty damn close. So sometime between coffee and eggs i was talking with my mom about a comment she had about my last blog post. She was insightful, by saying that she knows that i am gun shy, and i should tell wing man that, but then my dad joined in... Oh yeah, I felt like i was under the lamp... They were asking questions, and handing out advice left and right. They asked if i liked the wing man a lot or a little, My dad was telling me the "secrets of man behavior" as he calls it. Now let me tell you... i was both insightful entertainment and cringe worthy at the same time! Goodness! i never thought that i would be talking about my blog posts about men to my parents, acting out scenarios of what i should do to see if he likes me.... Uh! too much! LOL But, they did have some good advice... my dad especially, even though it was super weird talking to him face to face, after my mom blurted out "WHAT ARE YOU JUST USING HIM FOR SEX OR WHAT"!!!!!! god if there was a hole i would have crawled in it at that very moment! I like him, but i don't want to completely put myself out there if he does not feel the same. or worse yet i come out and ask if we are man-friend girlfriend, and he stops calling... (much like the smoker and Baird) But as much as it was crazy surreal, it was useful info...
So with that out, i was told by my father that if i like wing man, i should have given him a day that i could go out with him instead of saying i was just busy. He said if i do that "game" a guy will just move on to a different girl, Then he asked if Wing man and i were exclusive.... the MILLION DOLLAR QUESTION. So i was like a teenage girl again when i said "Dad! Come on! This is embarrassing!" so he said this... i am supposed to "playfully" yes he used that wording, say something like "Are you busy Monday or do you have plans with another girl?" LOL... yes this was the scenario part when i am suppose to see if Wing man is dating other girls as well. I don't think that he is, but i thought that same thing with the Doctor and look where that got me.... whore! Anyways... yes that was Saturday morning convo at my house, and i know have to see how the cards play out with Wing man. We texted back and forth a little on Sat, and he said he was going out with friends, and would call me Sunday. No call and when i texted him on Saturday night to fill him in on the Murder Mystery that i did, he didn't text back... Now thanks to my father, i have this little bug in my head thinking that he IS seeing other girls... This is exactly what i did not want to do with wing man... i wanted it to just happen and take it as it goes... Ugh! Well i did just notice a missed call and message from him on my cell... TBC
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