While getting my brows and make-up done this morning my friend M'Cherie and i got on the subject of dating. Now Many of you don't know her but to know her is to love her. She is hilarious and a professional dater,and not to mention beautiful. Seriously, this girl has dates everyday of the week, sometimes two different dates in one day! She really knows how to put herself out there. Which comes to my question. How do you know where is the right place to put yourself out there? She puts herself online. We both do agree that it is impossible to find a guy in the bars. Well, it is not hard to find a guy for the evening of "coloring" at the bars, but both of us, her more than i really wants to find a guy for a serious relationship. Which brought her to saying that, i am good looking and sweet, and that i am boisterous, so it takes a certain guy to approach me. So i bring you this:
Boisterous:
bois-ter-ous: rough and noisy, noisily jolly or rowdy; clamorous; unrestrained; rough and massive.
Synonyms:
uproarious, obstreperous, roistering, loud, vociferous, impetuous. 1, 2. tempestuous, tumultuous, turbulent, violent, wild.
Shit. I'm screwed, and single. I do understand that her comment was not meant to be an insult, nor did i take it as one at the time, or now. But really? Now i get that i get a little loud and i can be a little uproarious. But come on, unrestrained and massive. Now that's just mean. See if i go to dictionary.com again. Well that's just perfect! I don't intend to change, nor should i. I come to believe that my ladies love me the way i am, but will a man ever? Ever? Shit. She suggested that i come over one night and view her online profile on her dating sight, to see how innocent it is... I just don't know. I just don't think that i am ready for all that. Don't get me wrong i do want to meet a guy, but isn't that for people who are REALLY looking for a relationship. Yes, dating someone would be great, but i just am not sure i am ready to dive in feet first to the whole online love scene. I might test the water with my toe, and look at her profile. But that is as far as i am willing to go for now. All I'm sayin', is that it would be nice to go on a date once and a while...
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Go ahead and get online! Why is that any scarier than the freaks lurking in the bars? A date's a date. Don't forget the Bride and Groom's success story ... Just make sure to bring your cell, and if you must exit the date, one of us will call you and say something "bad" happened and get you out of there!
Things are always happening to me...head trauma, etc....I'd love to be your excuse! :)
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