Book Backfire

As I was in the tub today, I got to thinking. Could my addiction to self-help books be causing me to start fights with myself? We all know that us women can over analyze and look way to far into things, when there is no need to,right? For example, men. Before the books and the Famous Sex and The City episode "hes just not that into you", we women would find excuse after excuse for men. Crying on our friends shoulders all the time, talking about the so called "problem". But why? Crying "why didn't he call?", "well he said he couldn't call because he was in jail, but i wasn't his fault" (that was a funny for my friend the bride). If we would just stop talking and listen the truth is there. Men don't do the silly say one thing and mean another like we do, they are pretty straight forward. So in loo of getting yourself all upset over nothing and over-analyzing your situations, listen to what they tell you, and try not to let your "Well i read in this book that..." mentality get to you. I know that at times, i tend to let my book reading expertise be the end-all when instead, sometimes i should learn to trust what the guy is saying. And in the end if it didn't work out, its ok. But it is not ok to to stay just because you don't want to be lonely

*A special note to all the single/dating women out there. You know your relationships better than any of your friends. If the situation with a guy seems fishy it is. If you know that your friend doesn't like him, and you still spend all this time complaining about him, don't be mad at her for voicing her hatred for him, she is just looking out for you. But if you know he is a good guy that means well,give him a break. Stop over-analyzing a non-problem, it will only drive you mad, and your friends will be annoyed. Try to fill up the time that you use to complain about the situation with a new hobby instead, i did...your reading it.

A Spy-Bag Evening

The Fake Drive party was a hit. Huge thank you goes out to the dentist. She knows how the throw a party! Great Champagne, delightful food (accept the stuff i choked on) and of course my ladies. A shout out to my ladies, the Colombian Princess, Sundance, and Lady Sprint. You looked hot. My favorite thing about the parties is watching people getting increasingly drunk. Case and point, The cougars, and certain poets, who are such a train wreck you cant help but watch and participate. Note to the public, if you don't have game before you drink, you wont have it after a few either. Which brings me to my next point. There are things that you should not do after a certain age, and let people record it. Please enjoy Tales of the Cougar...

random thoughts

Heat wave! I know that it is pretty sad when 15 degrees feels like a heat wave. So new events in my life... For the security of all my friends i will not try to name any names in this blog, i will hint to who they may be but no names... i think it will be more fun this way! So i am going to a party at the cialis/dentist house this weekend. It should be fun, there will be quite the eclectic group of people. With a group like this it is a breeding ground for DRAMA. he he he i will keep you posted if anything juicy happens. But the party should be fab, it is Champagne party. That is all that i needed to know to be in. Which brings me to my next thought. So parties can be pretty pricey to throw, i know i have the allot. So i had a thought. People get tax breaks for having children, right? Where is my tax break for being a young single female who likes to have fun. So i purpose this, a new and improved government cheese program... instead of a 5 lbs block of sharp cheddar, i will stand in line for a a smaller amount of a nice Jarlsberg, or Gouda. stay tuned for more!

Welcome Home!

Hello to all my fabulous friends! I am so excited to share this new step in my life with you. I am becoming a blogger! I don't know why but i thought it would be fun. The reason i have started this is to keep you all informed of events in my life, and as well as other fun tidbits. I do hope that you all enjoy!